Jason,
If you turn on Debug logging for the SMTP server you should see something like this:
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: <=S: 220 exchange.xxxxxxxxx.com ESMTP Service ready
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: C=>: EHLO exchange.radianinc.com
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858Debug: <=S: 250-exchange.radianinc.com greets you
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: <=S: 250 AUTH CRAM-MD5
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: C=>: MAIL FROM:<xxxxl@xxxxxxxxx.com>
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: <=S: 250 Requested mail action okay, completed
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: C=>: RCPT TO:<xxxxxx@xxxxxxx.com>
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: <=S: 250 Requested mail action okay, completed
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: C=>: DATA
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: <=S: 354 Start mail input; end with <CRLF>.<CRLF>
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: <=S: 250 Requested mail action okay, completed
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Requested: SMTP In: mail from
xxxxx@xxxxxxxxx.com to
xxxxxx@xxxxxxx.com (6kb)
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: C=>: QUIT
01/13/04 10:19:22 172.16.1.41 radsys_mail 0000212858 Debug: <=S: 221 SMTP Server Service closing transmission channel
This is the info needed to diagnose the server lied problem.
Larry